Clingyness
Being clingy is to me what Ozzie Osborn was to music. I , LOVE clingyness. Without a shadow of a doubt, it’s definitely a trait that (at least to me) shows how much you care about someone. I know lots of people feel the opposite of this for some reason. But whenever someone is clingy to me, like just asking to hangout constantly or asking me about my day periodically, BROOOO that’s so amazing to me. Because that’s how I like to show my love for someone (romantically and also platonically). I think it’s just a beautiful thing honestly. And obviously it can get out of hand, like everything else can get it of hand. And I think that happens whenever you get really disappointed if something happens. Like if I asked someone to hang out and then I felt betrayed, or like I was being mean or rude just by asking and because they said no. I think that’s when it gets out of hand: whenever you can’t take the rejection and it spoils your overall mood and day. But I love being clingy like I am, because if I want (and get the sense that it’s not gonna piss the other person off) I’ll ask pretty often if someone wants to hangout, like every week or so (give or take depending on circumstances). And when I get hit with a rejection, I try not to take it personally, because I know that sometimes people are just busy, and I can’t be apart of their lives all day every day forever. And I’m fine with that. Will NOT stop me from being clingy though. And if I’m not clingy with someone, it’s generally because of 2 reasons. Either 1, I get the sense that it would annoy you and would make you want to talk to me less (or stuff like that. Or 2, I don’t feel like I can relax around you easily in several situations, so I might only hit you up every once in a while whenever I know I’m in a mood where I can exist peacefully around you. Generally speaking, it’s usually the first option.
I just with people were more open and prone to being clingy with people they want to spend time with. Or maybe they are and I’m just not generally part of that. But oh well, it doesn’t matter, because we be ballin. But that’s all for this probably, unless I think of something more later. Piece